Q: Hello, I hope you are doing well. You know, I wanted to ask you how to go on and move forward after you are told that you have breast cancer and that you have to undergo several treatments such as chemo, radiation and many things like loss of hair. I am asking you because that is what my physician told me and since he said that, each day I wish to die faster. Thank you for what you might be able to say to me.
A: Dear friend. I am so sorry you are feeling anguished and I perfectly understand how you must feel. I don’t know in what stage of the illness you are at the moment. I personally have female friends who have gone through that experience and are now totally cured. I want you to know that these trials, in spite of how hard they are due to the fear they cause, they are also opportunities and tools that God sends to us to improve and grow spiritually. There is always a reason for which we have to go through certain tests.
But I ask you not to allow desperation or hopelessness take over you. You are indeed facing a difficult test. But it is a test you can successfully complete if you maintain your Faith and happiness regardless of how difficult it may seem to you. Chemotherapy is not pleasant and the side effects can be... Read more
Q: Hello Ricardo. I got divorced 4 years ago because I was cheated on. It was stormy and a short time later I wanted to start my life over. But now that ghost came back to torment me in my mind and I cannot get it out. This is destroying me and my new relationship as well. Ifeel great insecurity, anguish and fear of losing the one I love, and so much unfounded jealousy. This had led me to verbally assault the one I love. What can I do? I feel desperate! Thank you.
A: Hello friend. I am sorry you are going through such a difficult and painful phase. The ghost of jealousy is terrible and has been responsible of countless tragedies throughout history. I understand that the memory of having been cheated on in the past may make you feel fear of reliving the same nightmare.
Many times we are negatively influenced by our own insecurities and worries. But often we are also influenced by those whom we cannot see – who amuse themselves through the harm inflicted on people like you who have an “Achilles Heel”, and they attack where it hurts us the most. Regardless of your awareness of what happens in the spiritual world, I will give you the following advice: First of all, you must understand that the person who chose to... Read more
Q: Hello, I feel very bad to see that my parents are not together anymore. That affects me a lot because they fight over me a lot. My mom does not let me see my dad and when I am with him, he does not let me go. It is as if they wanted to keep me kidnapped. I am going crazy!
R: Dear friend, I am so sorry you are going through difficult situations. You are very young and I understand how difficult it must be for you to have to feel like a Ping-Pong ball. Sometimes parents use their children as a means to attack each other due to the great frustration they feel for the failed relationship. They don’t do it out of evil and sometimes don’t even realize how much they are harming their children with this behavior.
First of all, I ask you not to judge them for they are the only ones who know the reality of what is going on. You must remain as impartial as possible and not take one’s side or blame either one. When one of them starts complaining to you about the other, gently tell them that you prefer to stay out of their conflict because they are affecting you. I am sure they will listen.
When there are conflicts in a home, resentment, emotional upsets and other negative circumstances of low vibration, the... Read more
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